5. Claim you are obsessed, stalking, harassing them.
They can claim that you’re the obsessed one, you’re the one that’s stalking them, you’re the one that will not leave them alone. Now, at times when they will not answer a simple question, when they will not make a simple arrangement, when they let you down, when they promise you something, you can then message them, especially if it’s about children. You said you were picking someone, so where are you? So, you can, yes, be messaging them. It’s not to harass them. It’s trying to arrange things.
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A narcissistic person will persistently message you about things that are nothing to do with the situation. They will make stuff up. They will twist events to their advantage to claim that you’re the one that is obsessed and stalking them when more often than not, they are obsessed and stalking and harassing you.
6. You’re the bitter and jealous.
They will claim that you’re the bitter one, you’re the jealous one, you’re the envious one because this makes the narcissist feel so special and superior that everybody wants them. When really, you’ve usually just had an awful, you’re trying to work out what is going on. And yes, we can all have feelings of resentment when we realize what we’ve been through.
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We can all have feelings of anger towards somebody. We can all have those pains of jealousy when we’ve been fed one story and then delivered another, and then someone gets delivered the story that we were once sold and question what’s wrong with those. This is good because we can all work out then what on earth is going on. However, to a narcissist, they believe that they’re just special and more important than everyone else.
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And when it comes to a narcissist and their rumors, when they can no longer control you, they want to control what other people think about you, and the best way to handle this is by letting the narcissist get on with it. You soon learn who the enablers and flying monkeys are. You soon learn the people you don’t want to explain yourself to. You soon learn people who will be there for you. By just letting the narcissist crack on and get on with it.
However, that is the best approach because at some point, then the narcissist will reveal who they are, and you reveal who you are with your actions and not your words. Stay out of this smear campaign. Leave the narcissist to it. And if you want to know how to deal with a narcissistic smear campaign, read this article here.
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