Number 3: They act as if you destroyed everything, and the blame lies entirely with you.
Narcissists are experts at the blame game. When a relationship or family unit breaks down, they cast you as the villain. Every conflict, every disagreement, every issue—in their eyes, you are the root cause of all of it. They take zero responsibility for anything and instead become the victim. They may tell this story to friends, family, or anyone who will listen, painting themselves as the damned and you as a destructive force.
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Right now, as I’m writing this, it is happening behind my back. My mother is spreading false lies against me for not letting her have control over my life. She cries in front of everyone—strangers, relatives—everyone, to get supply and have her victim self-enabled. She hardly cares about the fact that people will start hating me. How could she, because all of that is done in the name of love? When they create this false narrative that you’re the destroyer, it allows them to absolve themselves of any responsibility while laying the burden of guilt entirely on your shoulders.
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