Instead of arguing and fighting with a narcissist, what can you do instead? Well, to begin with, there are going to be a few things that you have to recognize and accept upfront.
First of all, the narcissist’s main agenda is always going to be protecting their false image and overinflated ego. Also, narcissists are fully, fundamentally, and constitutionally incapable of seeing you, hearing you, and feeling for you. Having empathy or remorse for the negative and detrimental effect their attitudes and behavior are having on you is not something that’s on the narcissist’s radar or in their toolkit, so to speak.
So, understand upfront that narcissists are always running their own agenda, and that agenda has zero to do with hearing you, seeing you, empathizing with you, or understanding you, much less supporting and validating you. Rather, their agenda is solely about winning, and in their mind, in order for them to win, you have to lose.
So, understand and accept upfront that this is who and what you’re dealing with, and it’s not something that is going to change. Narcissists do not change. Hear me, they don’t change. In fact, what’s going on with them is likely to get worse, not better over time. And the sooner you surrender to and accept that reality and then start making decisions based on reality, the better off you’ll be.
Tired of the endless fighting and arguing with a narcissist? Well, by the end of this article, you’re going to know exactly what to do instead. Let’s dive right in.
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