Number 3: When you publicly humiliate them.
Narcissists don’t like to be embarrassed or made fun of, especially in front of other people. They are often obsessed with their image, so it’s no surprise that they get panicky when they think we are publicly humiliated. They want to be seen as powerful and in control, so if something happens that threatens this illusion, they flip out.
Narcissists are very sensitive about their Public Image and how others perceive them, so if you call them out on something in front of others, you’re likely to make them feel very insecure. If you notice your narcissist friend being rude or self-centered, don’t hold back and just let them know immediately. They’re probably used to getting away with their bad behavior without consequences, but if you call them on it, it could shake up their world.
Number 4: When you say no to their manipulation.
Narcissists hate when someone stands up to them because it makes them feel powerless and weak. They love to manipulate people, especially those who are closest to them. But when you start saying no to their manipulations, they can’t help but panic. When you start saying no more often, it will make the narcissist think twice about trying to get away with their usual manipulation tactics in the future. Narcissists are only interested in getting what they want; if someone is saying no to them, that’s going against their goal of getting whatever they want.
Recommended: Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself- By Shahida Arabi.
Number 5: When you let them know that you are in control.
Narcissists love to be in control, and if they sense that you are trying to take it away from them, they can get panic. The more power you have over them, the more threatened they will feel. They need to feel Superior, so if you show them that you are not going to play into their games or cater to their needs, they’ll start acting out in ways that will get your attention.
Narcissists are control freaks, they need to be in control of every single thing that is going on around them. The best way to deal with a narcissist is to be strong and confident in yourself, don’t let them intimidate you or make you feel bad about yourself. If they try to make you feel guilty or inferior, just walk away from them and get some space away from them.
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