2. They are controlling you from expressing gratitude.
They are ecstatic to have you as property. And they take pleasure in having total control over you. And they enjoy taking advantage of you. It feels fantastic to love-bomb you, sweet talk you, lure you in, and then dump you at any time. If they flatter you, they can have whatever they want. You have faith in their abilities. You open up so easily even after being mistreated.
Once you’re hooked and invested, they’ll rip the rug out from under your feet just to see you collapse. Once they have your trust, they have control. A narcissist will manipulate you to achieve his or her objectives. They’ll shape your relationship role and see you as the hero’s, which is them, of course, sidekick. They’ll become enraged if your concentration isn’t all on the love-bombing narcissist. They won’t be able to understand that you have other responsibilities.
1. They fear gratitude and don’t feel it.
One of the emotions that narcissists despise is appreciation. Gratitude, like remorse, is seen as a sign of weakness by narcissists. Gratitude to the narcissist is essentially handling away control over others. It’s admitting that you owe someone money. It also compels you to accept the fact that you may have required assistance from others.
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Narcissistic persons imagine themselves as all-powerful entities who are far superior to others. Accepting that someone else has done something worthwhile for them pulls them back to reality. The fact that someone else provided them with something they required, not only puts them on par with others but also makes them feel weaker and lower down on the social ladder.
There is no need to be grateful in the world of the narcissist because everything they have is owed to them anyway. You can do something truly amazing for your narcissist and they will be enraged that you didn’t do it sooner or do it better. A narcissist with a plan can appear charming, self-assured, and even kind from a heart. Despite this, there are a few things that narcissists never do particularly in relationships.
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