6. We no longer are falling for their absurd lies or gaslighting
When the tricks they have up their sleeves start failing to work on us, when they start losing the power they had over us and the standard abuse and manipulation tactics that they use on you start to stop working, this is likely the beginning of the end, specifically, if they are facing an ultimatum.
For example, if you are demanding that they stop lying and gaslighting you if they want to be with you, the actual chances of that happening are just about zero percent. They are not interested in changing and doing the right thing. Therefore, you will start losing your appeal to the narcissist because you are no longer drinking the Kool-aid.
7. We no longer are catering to their needs and their ego
Narcissists don’t want a relationship based on mutual respect and equality. They want someone who is going to cater to their every need, every desire, every wish, every day, all day. If you start to decline to be solely focused on their needs, this will inevitably cause a narcissistic injury, and this unruly behavior of yours if it doesn’t clear up, then you’re likely going to be met with a discard.
Recommended: Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself- By Shahida Arabi.
8. They are bored
Narcissists have incredibly short attention spans and they are constantly trying to fight off boredom. So sometimes the narcissist may discard a target for literally no other reason other than boredom. They are literally that shallow and superficial.
Remember, the way you view other people and relationships is completely different than the way narcissists view other people and relationships. You are an object to them. You’re there solely to serve the narcissist and make him or her happy. If they become bored with you, then they don’t have any problems throwing you away as they would a toy that they were done playing with. It’s really that simple to a narcissist.
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