Why narcissists hoover?
First, it might be helpful for me to try and explain why narcissists hoover previous sources of narcissistic supply. And the main reason is two words I used in a previous sentence, narcissistic supply. First and foremost, it’s all about their addiction and dependence on narcissistic supply, that is the number one reason they hoover. You were at one time or another a valuable source of narcissistic supply, so they’re back. It’s really as simple as that.
So for example, maybe the reason is because the narcissist wants to pull you back to a full-time relationship, or maybe they want to attempt to um triangulate you and the new source of supply, or maybe they’re just bored and low on narcissistic supplies so they decide to give you a try again.
But the reason they do it is for whatever leftover supply you may be able to provide them with, what a hoover does not mean is that the narcissist has changed, or that things will be different this time, or that they have seen the error of their ways and will never harm you again, or that they really do love you, hoovers do not under any circumstances mean that. All it means is they are looking at you right now for their fix to their addiction and need for narcissistic supply.
Some of the more common and typical hoovers that they use.
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