4. Having a firm and consistent boundaries.
Do they even understand what boundaries are? Of course, they do. However, narcissists consider themselves above that rule. They treat boundaries more like a suggestion that they can either adhere to or not, and sometimes they treat it like a challenge for them to surpass.
Empaths know how important boundaries are to any relationship. Boundaries protect each party from hurting or being hurt. It also shows respect for the other’s preferences. A narcissist does not consider these things. If they are happy, nothing else matters. Standing firm and constantly reinforcing your boundaries pisses a narcissist off big time! Be ready for their tantrums and do not let their name-calling and insults get to you.
3. Seeking help.
How does going to therapy threaten the narcissist? Like a schoolteacher, police officers, or even their parents, narcissists do not like therapists for many different reasons. They do not like anyone prying into their personal lives, even if they do this themselves. They also do not want your views and perspectives to change. In staying the same, you are less aware and more compliant with their attitudes and behaviors.
Also, they know therapy changes people and they do not want to change. Narcissists do not see any more room for their improvement. Continuing to seek professional help really irritates a narcissist. Notice their mood change every time you mention going to therapy.
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