Number 3: Create an organization in your life.
Narcissists hate organizations. By the definition, we’re talking about a disorder here. So they are struggling with internal chaos which is why they want their external environments filled with it. They would want to create as much disorganization as possible, emotionally or otherwise. So you have to act the opposite of that. You have to create organization in your life. If they want you to believe that your life is supposed to be a mess, take a stand for yourself and get things together. Get things in your hand. Get that job that you have been looking for. Sort out your education. Or it could be as simple as just organizing things around in the house. Prove them wrong. They don’t like stability.
Create that stability and show them that you are not going to settle for or recreate that internal chaos that they want to manifest in their environments. The moment you create this organization, it almost gives them a narcissistic injury big enough to take a step back and to know that they can’t control you anymore because you have recognized your true power and that your life is in your hands and they can’t control it. In fact, nobody can.
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