Number 2: They’ll start going through your stuff.
They will start going through your stuff, breaking all the rules, and breaching your privacy by searching your private journals. They want to know what you’re all about, what you’re writing about, and how you’re feeling, so that they can use and weaponize that information to further abuse you. If they are still stealers, they will take away your money, steal jewelry, and destroy your makeup if you’re a woman married or in a relationship with a male narcissist, they might destroy your clothes. They will tear them apart, cut them in the middle, and later, when you come back to all of that chaos, that mess, they’ll gaslight you. They’ll say, ‘Oh, you’re making up things. It was like that. You never had that kind of money. What are you talking about?’
Going through your stuff is not only related to stealing; it’s also about instilling fear, making you feel extremely vulnerable and unsafe in your own space so that you remain in a terrorized state, and they can easily abuse you. For example, if they go through your computers, phones, diaries, everything, your text messages, of course, you are going to become paranoid. You are going to feel so hurt, and the problem is you cannot express that. Plausible deniability — there is no proof. So, for the narcissist, it never happened, and they’re really good at lying pathologically. No matter what you say and how much you express the discomfort you are in because of their activities, their stalking activities, they won’t accept it. They will fight you till their last breath.
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