“Number 3: “I don’t know what you’re talking about.”
The translation is, “I exactly know what you’re talking about, but I am pretending that I don’t know and I’m doing so to escape responsibility, to escape accountability.” “I am making you question your reality and twisting it for you so that you start feeling crazy so that you start asking yourself, ‘What’s wrong with me?'” “Is it me who is making things up?” “And this is why when you leave the relationship, you have questions like, ‘Am I the one who is the problem here? Am I the narcissist? Did I do something that made them do what they did?'” “And it is because of the heinous, the ugly manipulation and gaslighting they do while you are in relationships, this is a root of cognitive dissonance.”
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Number 4: “No one thinks the way you think.”
What they are actually saying is “I am using Ally, real or imagined, to back up my lies and manipulation so that you feel isolated.” I am triangulating you at the moment, but it is all invisible. I am creating people imaginary in my support. Or they could be real to prove that it is you who is a problem here, to prove that the problem is your thinking. The problem is your feelings. I am clearly bald, physically dismissing your feelings, your thoughts, your identity, your personality, and your whole existence. This is all an invisible setup to isolate, to make you feel the problem. I am making you question even the most basic principle you have been following. I am making you question your value, and your belief system so that I can break them down and demoralize you to the extent that there is nothing left of you.
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I know that it sounds very evil how someone can think in those ways, but actually, this is the motivation, this is the intention behind all of these behaviors. This is why a narcissist projects it on you. This is why they make you question things because then it becomes very easy for them to continue the abuse. When your ability to use the critical factor, the logic, the reason is gone, the path is very easy. It becomes very buttery and it has the flow they need.
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