3. Inclusion & diversity
Narcissists cannot deal with anyone who thinks differently than they do. They cannot deal with anyone who lives life in a way that is different from how they live life, they cannot include or involve people from a range of different social and ethnic backgrounds, and they cannot be involved in a range of different things or people. A narcissist cannot include people who have different religious beliefs or lifestyle practices.
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It is natural in life to come across people who have a different way of life, and sometimes you have to include people who have different experiences. It’s good to accommodate people who have different ideas and opinions, people who have different lifestyle preferences, but narcissists do not want to include or accommodate anyone.
It bothers them. It makes them feel like they are losing control, they only want to deal with people who they think are like them, people who are in their club. Anyone who is different to them makes them feel uncomfortable because they always have to be right, they always have to be in control, and they have to be the one who makes all of the decisions.
Narcissists don’t want there to be any other external influences because that threatens their control and because that threatens their authority. Narcissists are very insecure, so they cannot tolerate differences in other people.
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