3. When people don’t validate their false self.
When people don’t validate their illusions, when they don’t go along with their false narrative, and when they don’t agree with their proposals or ideas. They see it as rejection and they cannot take No for an answer- that is an offense to the narcissist. It causes a narcissistic injury, which will be followed by narcissistic rage because, in their minds, it’s unfair. Narcissists believe that they have a right to whatever they want, just because they want it.
So if you deny them of anything, something must be wrong with you. You were trying to make their lives difficult or inconvenient, so now you must pay the price and you deserve to be punished because, in their minds, you have no right to tell them No. But if you do, they will show you every reason why you are wrong, why you are beneath them, and why they are superior to you, as though they are greater than anything that you have to offer, as though they’re better than you. And when you say No to a narcissist, it puts a boundary between you and them, and they do not like that.
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Narcissists want measurement and want to make boundaries for you so that they can place you within certain limits, and keep you under their control, but they do not want you to have any boundaries for yourself. They need to have access to their supply at all times. They need to be able to have and do whatever they want, whenever they want. And They cannot understand the concept that they cannot always get what they want. Healthy people have boundaries and limitations, but the narcissist is self-absorbed and they lack empathy, so they don’t care about how their behavior affects you and they don’t respect you. All they care about is what they want.
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