3. Being Nice & Generous.
We already know that when a Narcissist is acting Nice, it is not genuine and there is usually a hidden agenda, either to get something from or to destroy you. And they have no issues playing the nice card to get what they want. They have no issues giving gifts if it will make you lower your defenses. They have no problem giving fake apologies and crying fake tears.
If you let the Narcissist back into your life, they will just wait their time. It can take weeks, months, or years, but as soon as the Narcissist is comfortable, they have you where they want you, they will regress back into their negative behaviors or commence their plans to destroy you.
With Narcissists, it is not that they just make mistakes that can easily be corrected or mistakes where an apology will suffice and you can have confidence that they will not do it again. No, Narcissists are hard-wired to hurt you again and again, as long as you let them. And they will keep trying to win you back if you leave a door open for them to return.
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So, you have to make up your mind to eliminate not just the Narcissist but those pesky Flying Moneys who are prepared to hand you over to the Narcissist on a silver platter. When you cut off those Flying Monkeys, the Narcissist will cut them off as well, as they usually serve no other purpose. The Narcissist usually only needs them as long as they give them access to you. You can find out more about flying Monkeys in this article.
But to conclude, Narcissists will use flying monkeys, playing the victim, and being very nice or generous in order to walk back into your life. So, be mindful of these tactics and the people they will use in order to keep yourself free from the Narcissist.
Until next time, stay safe, stay vigilant and please share this article with your friends and family, sharing is caring!
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