Number 6: You know your worth and value.
The narcissist will try to convince you that you aren’t worth it, you don’t deserve better and you should stay with them because they are the only ones who love you. Once you have no contact with a narcissist, they will realize that you have awakened from your thoughts and know that you always have worth and value.
When you’ve been with a narcissist, you have likely been manipulated, taken advantage of, and treated poorly. Getting no contact with a narcissist will get your strength back on track and that will threaten them in time. But one thing they can’t take away from you is the knowledge that you are valuable and worthy… You are worth more than what they will ever give you.
Number 7: You don’t need them anymore.
Narcissists cannot love anyone else, and their love for themselves is all-consuming. They will use every trick they know to make you feel like you need them. They only want what they can get from a relationship and what makes them feel good about themselves.
When you have no contact, The Narcissist will assume you don’t need them anymore. The Narcissist may become angry and jealous of you for not needing them anymore. They’ll accuse you of cheating on them; of going after your ex or someone else, or of having an affair. The truth is that you don’t need them anymore and this makes them feel rejected.
Number 8: You have moved on from the past.
When you go no contact, you decide that you are no longer a part of the narcissist’s life and they can no longer use you as their source of Supply. This can insult their ego because they have lost control over you and your life. They will assume that you have moved on from the past… they’ll question your sanity, judgment, and mental stability for making such a decision.
The Narcissist will do everything possible to get back into your life, even if it means destroying it or making you feel terrible for rejecting them. Once they can’t keep you in victim mode, they lose their power over you.
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