6. Narcissists Choose Their Victim.
One of the traits of a narcissist is that they seek out people who would validate their self-image. These individuals do not want to waste any time with people who challenge them on any level. They attack other people in order to feel better about themselves.
Allowing this to happen can be incredibly harmful to your mental health. They’ll continue to hurt you, so they need to be with someone who does not carry grudges in order to stay in the relationship. It is beneficial for them also to have partners who are prepared to go with the flow and never raise a fuss about anything.
5. For Narcissists, There Are No Boundaries.
There are no limits. A denial of reality is not being aware of the boundaries that exist between two persons. Two persons have unique identities, each with their own thoughts, feelings, motivations, dreams, ideas, ambitions, and rights.
If a narcissist treats others as if they have the authority to order, control, force, and dictate someone else’s behavior even if it’s disguised as good advice, they are motivated by their own hunger for power instead of the right of the individual they are trying to control, to think, feel, or act for themselves, and they are blinded from the fact by that lust for power.
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Rapists, child molesters, robbers, and killers all have the same cruel attitude toward people, considering them as objects to be exploited at will, with no understanding of what it means to violate or break the boundary lines of someone else’s rights, existence, or individuality. Or they want to exert as much power as possible at all times.
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