You Are Never Enough For A Narcissist! – Here’s Why!


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2. The Narcissist Gets Bored.

You can do everything the narcissist asks you to do, and they are still going to be bored of you. Honestly, the more you do without a fight, the more bored they are. Narcissists always need something new. No matter what we do, we are not new forever; nothing and no one is. Once we’re being devalued by a narcissist, it’s over. They’re bored, you’re not fun, the new car smell is long gone, etc. The narcissist may tell you that you are controlling, as you desperately try to call them out on their behaviors and regain control of the situation.

What happens over time though is we do stop fighting. The love bombing is over. The romance is so dead and they killed it. We’re walking on eggshells, we’re scared of this person, which version of them are we going to get today. We give up, we give in, we back down, we don’t fight anymore. And again, yes, the narcissist might be getting what they want because we are broken and downtrodden and we don’t put up a fight. However, not fighting with them makes them even more bored; they’re not getting any drama, they’re not getting any ego boosts out of anything, and they’re still not getting everything they want.

A BOOK: Why Is It Always About You? : The Seven Deadly Sins of Narcissism- By Sandy Hotchkiss.

Narcissists and toxic people, in general, are prone to start fights over nothing at all, just to watch you squirm. “Can they get a reaction out of you and which one will it be”. For a long time, I’ve always found it a red flag when I’m talking to somebody romantically and they constantly say that they’re bored. I think everyone should key into this. Why can’t somebody entertain themselves? Also, even if they’re not narcissistic, people who are always bored are always boring. I promise you.

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