It comes as a shock to the Narcissist when they realise they are about to lose someone who has been such a major source of Narcissistic Supply. So, now instead of doing things that would push you away, the Narcissist starts behaving and doing things to pull you back into their arms. And it’s the simple fact, which I discussed before that the Narcissist uses Tactics To Get You Back because you still have something they want.
And the problem is that the Narcissist cannot help falling back into their default destructive, abusive behaviours. They become too comfortable or rather bored and seem to forget that they need you. They are deluded into thinking that they have the final say and control in how you decide to live your life. That is why when we take our power back and decide enough is enough, the Narcissist goes back to the drawing board and pulls out the charm to remind you of who they could be or of who you fell in love with.
Psychopath Free: Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other Toxic People
That side of them is always there but it is only brought forth when the Narcissist thinks it is needed. Not because you deserve the love-bombing, but it’s all about if it benefits the Narcissist to do so. When you stop caring for the Narcissist, they start pretending to care in order to win your affections once more because only when you care can they manipulate you and control you.
Of course, the Narcissist wishes they can treat you like trash all the time and get away with it. But they can’t, and in many cases, it is only when we challenge them or stop caring when they all of a sudden want to be nice again.
Conclusion.
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