Number 4: Narcissists may try to pull us back into their lives by live bombing.
Narcissists may begin love bombing us out of fear of losing us. For example, narcissists may send us long and love text messages, or emails, or purchase excellent gifts to entice us back into their web. We could feel liked and essential to them right now. Once we are back in the relationship and at ease with ourselves, narcissists will swiftly revert to some type of abuse.
Number 5: Narcissists will make you believe he’s changed.
Never forget that a narcissist will never change, he could simply be waiting for the right moment to re-enter your life as a completely different person. Beware, you’re about to meet the worst person ever. Do not let the narcissists entice you back in, no matter how much he appears to have changed.
After the love bombing strategy, you’ll be tempted to give him another chance, but it won’t be long before he resorts to the same abuse that prompted you to avoid contact in the first place.
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Number 6: Narcissists may use the no contact strategy themselves and practically disappear.
If we also maintain no contact with them, they may not return since they will believe they have lost their principal source of supply. Narcissists will swiftly move on to the next romantic connection that will offer them the necessary supply in this situation. When narcissists abandon their relationship with us, they usually have a new supply lined up. We may be taken aback by their actions and wonder how they could swiftly move on to the next person.
Narcissists will never be hurt because they lost this. Instead, they believe they have lost control and will no longer be able to manipulate us. Remember that narcissists lack empathy; silence will always be regarded as one of the most effective strategies for dealing with narcissists.
The best form of revenge is none at all; make no mistake and stay away from anything that a narcissist might do after going silent or having no contact. You are always entitled to a life free of abuse. You have the authority to set boundaries and limits at any time. By leaving the narcissist first, you endanger their sense of ownership over you and their excessive desire to control and gain from you what they cannot find in themselves.
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