9. Smear Campaigning.
Another thing that narcissist does when being ghosted is a smear campaign. They will make sure to make you look bad in the eyes of everyone else. They make sure that you won’t be able to dodge the bullet when other people throw words at you. And they tell people about the things you did to them, make them look like they are the victim, and make you the bully. It’s so frustrating, right? You’re the one who got abused and bullied, yet they have the nerve to be the one calling you out as a bully, are you fed up with it? Better cut contact with them permanently.
10. You Will Get C-PTSD.
Ghosting a narcissist can give you benefits as well as side effects. Most people that were freed from the narcissist will have complex post-traumatic stress disorder or what we call C-PTSD. This is because of them being abused so many times by their partner, that it will haunt them for the rest of their lives. This traumatic experience will also be repeated when the ghosted narcissist will be able to find you.
The only way to get out is to make sure that they won’t have any means of contacting you again. You have to let go of the feelings you hold for them in order to be okay. C-PTSD has symptoms that will worsen once it’s not treated. Better to see a psychiatrist in order to start treating yourself. And we also suggest that you read these two amazing books for healing called: Healing from Hidden Abuse: A Journey Through the Stages of Recovery from Psychological Abuse And Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men.
Read More: What Narcissists Do When A Relationship Ends
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