5. Harassment.
Since you left a narcissist, that is not allowed for them. You have harmed the fragile narcissistic ego in ways that cannot be undone, and you will not be forgiven. The ones that leave are the narcissists, not their partners. And if you are the one who left, they will give you a hard time when they see you again. It doesn’t matter that he’s got a new partner; you’re the one who caused the harm, and you’ll be held responsible. He will know he is influencing you if you react, and he will continue to do so. This is why you should not show that you are affected if he is continuing to harass you because this will be the hint narcissist will say that you are victorious.
6. Shifting of Blame.
After discarding the narcissist, if they find you, they blame you for why you discarded or ghosted them. Since narcissists’ ego is so high, they think that the downfall of their relationship is your fault. You notice that at the beginning of your relationship with them, they will say that they are lucky to have you as their partner, right? That they treated you special, that they were so in love with you. Then, later on, they show their true colors in abusing and harassing you.
And despite what they did, they blame you for it as to why they did it. It doesn’t make sense right? So better to discard them for good and cut off communications with them as soon as possible.
Recommended: Healing from Hidden Abuse: A Journey Through the Stages of Recovery from Psychological Abuse.
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