4. Narcissists express gratitude because they just do what society expects of them.
Keep in mind that narcissists are well aware of the importance of maintaining social races. This is because, in order to maintain supply, they must fulfill at least part of society’s and culture’s expectations. They also understand what is legal and what is not, and they are well aware of the consequences of behaving badly toward others. They learn how to play in front of a crowd at a young age.
As a result, you’ll frequently hear a narcissist express gratitude for gifts or services on the surface but not on the heart. When something goes wrong or lacking, they still believe it’s everyone else who is at fault. In almost every situation, they’re being patronizing but don’t mean it. In fact, having to say thank you is a bit sickening to them.
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3. A narcissist is showing gratitude because they’re just afraid of losing their partner’s admiration.
When they realize that their partner’s interest or excitement for them is fading, narcissists feel anxious to reclaim their partner’s affection. They may spend a lot of money on gifts or make extravagant romantic, grand gestures, whatever it takes to get their love to place them back on the pedestal. When you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, you’ll quickly notice that even small things can cause anxiety and concern that the relationship is failing.
Running late for a date, needing to go into work early, hanging out with your friends, or forgetting to wear the narcissist’s wardrobe of choice can all be viewed as purposeful acts of contempt. Partners are treated as prizes or trophies by narcissists.
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