10. Because a narcissist needs you, they are grateful to you.
Narcissists despise being exposed, so they don’t want you to realize that they need you and you are helpful to them. Otherwise, you may discover that you have more authority than they do- that’s something they can’t have.
Narcissists come up with a variety of tactics to attract attention without revealing how desperate they are for it. They might pretend to be a victim in order to play at your heartstrings or come up with a variety of reasons why you should spend time with them. Once you’ve been taken in, narcissists usually act unconcerned as if they don’t need you.
9. A narcissist shows gratitude because they simply want someone on their side.
Most narcissists hate doing things by themselves. At the same time, they dislike having to compromise on their goals. So many narcissists enjoy being surrounded by people who agreed to accompany them to places they want to go and do the things they want to do.
The narcissist is unconcerned about whether or not you wish to do these things or if you enjoy them. They simply want a body to drag about with them while they go about their business. You’ll very certainly be met with so many excuses if you suggest something you’d want to accomplish, and maybe a little sarcasm threw in for a good measure. You have no right to offer something you want to do.
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