2. Narcissistic Supply.
The second thing that means the world to the Narcissist is their Narcissistic Supply, which usually comes as a result of that fake image that they have created. They need attention, compliments, and praise to feel good about themselves. They need to know that they are loved by the masses and held in high esteem. They also need that dark Narcissistic supply that they get from hurting and betraying those that they claim to love.
And in order to get this, they have to deceive people into getting into a relationship with them. The amount of effort the Narcissist puts into getting their Narcissistic Supply is enough proof to show how much it matters to them. With Narcissists, people are just a means to an end, and that is why they are not able to truly love or care for anyone. Because all they want from us is their Narcissistic Supply. It makes them feel powerful and in control.
A Book: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men.
Narcissists live for control. Life would be useless if they had no one to manipulate, control and validate their very existence. This is also why they have to have numerous sources of supply. One person loving them will never be enough. One person to control and abuse will never be enough. The Narcissist is a predator, always looking for the next meal. And when they get bored with one supply, they need to have others to turn to.
So even though they may get bored with you and take you for granted and put you on the shelf, in their mind, they own you and you just need to stay put until they are ready for you again. So, yes, Narcissistic Supply is very important to the Narcissist.
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