4. Before you do that, take into consideration your safety and well-being.
And finally, before you expose the narcissist, you need to take into consideration your safety and well-being. I know that it’s hard for victims to just let the narcissist get away with the harm and the destruction they have caused to your life. However, nothing, absolutely nothing is worth putting your safety or the safety of your children in jeopardy. I speak from experience when I tell you this. As I confronted and exposed this to a degree in my own life, naively, not comprehending, that the pandora’s box I was opening.
If you haven’t noticed, I’m against this idea altogether because the positives that would come out of this don’t come close to the negatives that could and likely will come out of this if you move forward, specifically if they are a malignant narcissist. You are dealing with a human being without a conscience and who is sadistic.
Meaning, they can gain pleasure in causing you to suffer, and if you attempt to expose them, they will view this as an absolute attack with the responsible person deserving of being destroyed, because that is how protective they are of their phony image. They will view you as an absolute threat who is trying to destroy their life. Therefore, you must be destroyed first so that you never dare to threaten them again.
This is no joke you guys, I hope that you will weigh these things very carefully before you move forward because I would not wish on anyone to live through or go through what I did. In my opinion, it is never worth it. My best advice to you is to get away, go no contact, and focus on your healing and your future.
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