4. Cheating.
They may be rejecting you because they are cheating with a new source of supply. This is just a really cruel reality that many of us are faced with. Most times, narcissists will lie about this, specifically if they’re not ready to discard you yet. So if we ask if someone else is involved, even if the signs are there that the narcissist is cheating, they will tell us we are crazy, that we have an overactive imagination, etc.
However, many times narcissists cheat on their partners. They don’t care about the damage that they are doing to their current partner, and they truly and honestly believe that they are entitled to have as many affairs as they choose. So cheating may very well be the reason that a narcissist is rejecting you s.x.ually.
Recommended: Healing from Hidden Abuse: A Journey Through the Stages of Recovery from Psychological Abuse.
5. Psychological Abuse.
They enjoy humiliating you and seeing you plead with them. This is a psychological game to the narcissists, and sometimes I tell my clients the name of the game is how much will you tolerate and how much destruction can the narcissist cause to your self-esteem and to your life before you figure out who and what they are. This is a game, a sick destructive horrible game to them, nothing more nothing less.
In closing, if you are struggling with narcissistic abuse, reach out for support, find an educated therapist or narcissistic abuse recovery coach, or a support group for a narcissistic abuse recovery because support is critical to healing from this.
Related: Narcissist And SEX: How The Narcissist Views Intimacy With Their Partner.
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