6. If you need them, they will either become overly involved with whatever is going on, and become completely engrossed in it beyond what is actually necessary, or they just ignore you and your request completely and might say I don’t have time for that. It tends to be they are either all in beyond what is necessary or not involved at all and completely blow you off, and we never know which one it’s going to be.
And that is because a narcissist solely bases their interest and involvement in issues based on how much narcissistic supply they can extract from this event. That’s all that matters to narcissists.
A BOOK: Why Is It Always About You? : The Seven Deadly Sins of Narcissism- By Sandy Hotchkiss.
7. They Are Terrible Losers.
They have the absolute worst sportsmanship imaginable. Narcissists love to win. I don’t think there is anything more important to a narcissist than winning. No matter how inconsequential it might seem to you, to them winning is everything.
And if you are playing a game with them, or if there is some kind of a contest and they don’t win, there is going to be a problem. Either the game wasn’t fair or you did something intentionally to make them lose, or the game is just stupid altogether and wasn’t important in the first place. But one thing is for sure, they are horrible, horrible losers.
8. They Rudely and Bizarrely Change The Topic of Conversations.
This is infuriating, to say the least. So, for example, you might be trying to talk to them about something that’s important to you, something that you need to address with them, and all of a sudden, they change the topic to something that has absolutely nothing to do with the topic you were addressing. They typically do this to avoid any responsibility. Sometimes we refer to this tactic as “word salad”.
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