No, it has everything to do with them. It is the truth of who they are. It is the truth of their addictions. It is the truth of their abusive nature. It is the truth of their deceptions. It is the truth of everything they try to hide from the masses.
We already know Narcissists do not like to take accountability for their bad actions. And it is because they would have to accept or admit wrongdoing. So, they have to lie to themselves and find a way to put the blame on someone else. This is why they much rather play the victim than the villain. Not only is it far from the truth, but it allows the Narcissist to solidify that lie in their minds; the lie of being the victim.
I always say the Narcissist life is built on lies because in their case, the truth is not an option. And when the Narcissist realizes that you are on to them and that you see past all that fakery, their aim will be to avoid you or turn everyone against you so that you lose credibility and no one would believe you if you tried to expose them. This is why Narcissistic Relationships all play out the same.
The people the Narcissist abuses are already being devalued and slandered behind their backs; where the things that the Narcissist are doing to you, they are telling other people you are doing it to them. So, by the time, you muster up the courage to talk to someone about it, especially someone who the Narcissist was already slandering you with; they would have heard it all before but with the added twist, that you are the perpetrator.
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