8. They project negative thoughts and feelings on you.
Psychological projection is a coping strategy many use to deal with uncomfortable experiences or emotions. It is shifting one’s undesired sentiments onto another person rather than coping with them. This is exactly what a narcissist does. Being projected to by a narcissist can be perplexing; they would accuse you of feeling emotions or even having thoughts that have never crossed your mind. You’d be left wondering where that came from and why they would assume that.
As an empath, it can be hard to identify narcissistic projection. Your sensitivity allows you to feel their emotions as your own. It is during these situations that distinguishing your feelings and thoughts from those of another is crucial. Knowing yourself and managing how you react to situations can greatly help in handling narcissistic projection.
7. They pass the blame.
Externalizing blame is an integral part of a narcissist’s character. They never think they are wrong, which implies that whenever conflicts emerge, anyone but themselves is to blame. Why do they love pointing fingers even if they are clearly in the wrong? This is because their fragile egos cannot handle taking responsibility for failure.
According to some theories, it would utterly destroy them if they were to own their faults. As we know, narcissists devote too much time and energy to maintaining their facade and convincing themselves and others of their greatness. Narcissists are fiercely protective of their image and would never tolerate anything that might tarnish it. Remember this the next time a narcissist points their finger at you.
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