3. Pay close attention to how they treat people in the service industries.
For example, waiters, waitresses, housekeepers, etc. Narcissists will generally be rude and ill-mannered to people in the service center industry. They will be the complainer about the service. They will complain about their food, they are huge on sending back the food or drink back to make it the way it’s supposed to be made. This makes them feel special and superior and frankly, they usually feel that people and service industries are beneath them.
They usually won’t have any value for these people and therefore, they’ll take an opportunity to criticize, demean, or humiliate this person. This is a big red flag. I’m literally at the point in my life, if I’m around anyone that is rude or ill-mannered to a waiter or waitress, I immediately eliminate them from my life. This type of demeaning behavior tells me all I need to know about someone. insurance quotes
4. The pity play
So many times, a narcissist will engage with a new target and have this awful story that could almost make you cry. Do not fall for it. Narcissists are famous for utilizing the pity play, especially in the beginning, to measure how much empathy and compassion the target has. In order to discern how good of a victim he or she is.
They know that if they can get you to feel sorry for them if you react in a caring empathetic way towards their pity place story, you are going to be very easy to manipulate and take advantage of far longer than someone else. Anytime someone inappropriately shares personal information that would invoke pity or sympathy in another person, is one of the biggest red flags there is.
Many times, people are unaware that the Pity plays are a big-time manipulation tactic of narcissists, especially for the covert narcissist and the female narcissist. insurance quotes
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