Number 8: They hate you because you point out their mistakes.
Narcissists have fragile egos, and they can’t handle criticisms and rejections. They are very good at making others feel like they are wrong or to blame, but they don’t like it when it’s pointed out to them. They will often use a technique of projection and gaslighting to make sure that you feel bad about yourself instead of dealing with their issues.
Narcissists will also try to turn the tables on you by pointing out something you did wrong to make themselves feel better. You might think that when you point out a narcissist’s mistakes, you’re helping them improve. They hate being told they’re wrong because it threatens their ability to be superior and perfect in every way. So when you try to help them by pointing out things they can improve, they’ll get defensive and angry.
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Number 9: They hate you because you love them.
If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, they will spend a lot of time telling you how much they love you. But the truth is that their love is conditional upon you living up to their expectations and serving their needs. They will make it clear that their love for you is contingent on how well you perform in their eyes. And if you don’t meet their standards, then they’ll dump you without hesitation. Once you fall short, you must prepare for the consequences.
Narcissists have been abused, neglected, or abandoned as children. When they grow up, they create a fantasy world where they are always right, and everyone else is wrong. They don’t want to be loved for who they are, they’re terrified of it. They don’t want anybody getting close enough to see through their facade and recognize how fake it all is, that’s why they hate you when you love them and accept them.
There are a lot of reasons why narcissists hate you. They’re jealous of your success because they think you’re better than them. After all, you know the truth about them, or maybe just because they’re narcissistic and can’t stand when anything isn’t about them. Whatever their reason, don’t beat yourself up about it. You’re never at fault for them hating you.
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