4. Being average.
Another thing Narcissists worry about on a daily basis is being just average. It is a scary thing for the Narcissist to be counted the same as everyone else. They do not want to be viewed as your equal; they want to be viewed as better than you. That is why a lot of their time and effort are invested in their image and their achievements.
Apart from wanting something to brag or boast about, it is important that they have more or have done more than their peers. It is all about remaining relevant and in the spotlight. And because whatever they do or accomplish is never enough, that fear remains with them.
A Book: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men.
5. Not being the centre of attention.
The fifth thing Narcissists worry about on a daily is not being the centre of attention. They worry about being outshined, whether it is by a work colleague, a friend, a partner, their own child, etc. Narcissists silently compete with everyone around them and they love being the centre of attention and will do what they can to keep that attention all to themselves.
6. Being taken advantage of.
The sixth thing Narcissists worry about is being taken advantage of, which is ironic as this is something they would do to anyone and everyone. But it is for that same reason why they worry that someone may be taking advantage of them. So, they are very suspicious and paranoid and look for ways to cheat others before others cheat them.
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