You know that old saying, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me,” right? We all know that isn’t true; certain words really can hurt us. And we all know that narcissists have some pretty unrealistic standards, one of which basically asks us to actively censor ourselves when we speak to them so as to avoid triggering their fragile egos and sending them into a spiraling narcissistic world – basically a meltdown.
There are certain words and phrases that you can say to a narcissist that will positively destroy them. At least on an emotional level.
And while it might be tempting to use this information to hurt the narcissist, that isn’t why I’m sharing it with you today. In fact, while we all know that the ideal answer to dealing with a narcissist would always be to just go no contact, we also all know there are certain situations where we need to continue to deal with them for one reason or another. Maybe we’re stuck because we don’t have the money to go, or maybe we have business we need to accomplish with them, or we’re raising kids together. In any case, if you’re dealing with a narcissist, then you have to know that you have to tread really carefully. This means that you’re going to avoid using certain words around them because if you use these words, they will destroy the narcissist.
And as tempting as it’s going to be to do that because, let’s be honest, they totally had it coming, the consequences of facing the narcissistic rage can be far from pretty. If you relate, stick with me, because that’s exactly what we’re talking about today- words that destroy a narcissist, what you can say or do instead of using them. And if you read until the very end, I will fill you in on the number one word that you can never say to a narcissist without completely destroying them. So let’s get started.
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