3. They may disappear totally and get supply from somewhere else until you get better.
This is one of the most selfish things a person can do to their loved one, to their child, to their spouse. You are supposed to be there. You’re supposed to be present. And you are supposed to take care of the one who has always taken care of you, who has always been there for you, who has always provided for you, who has tried to take care of every single need that you have, even when it was not their responsibility. And when they need you selfishly like a coward, you escape. This makes you the worst humanity has ever to offer. You cannot do this to a person when you know that they depend on you.
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So, a narcissist, in this case, would leave you for the wolves. They would leave you in the middle of nowhere, and they would be gone completely. They might turn off their phone, they might cut off all communication, and they might just completely cut you off. And then you would be left in shock to deal with this illness, to deal with the sickness on your own.
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For example, God forbid, if you get diagnosed with Stage four cancer, and now you need chemotherapy and your chances are very less, you need your loved one to be by your side at this point. They leave you. They completely leave you, do not show up. And now you have to go to the hospital for the chemotherapy, for the visits, and so on, and there is no one there for you. And let’s say by any chance if you make it, shamelessly, they would show up later bringing up these excuses that this happened and that happened, and this is why they had to go and this is why they had to abandon you.
And they will try to manipulate you because now you are better and now they can get supply. Again, this is how opportunistic they are. This is how they objectify you. You are no more than an object that they can use and throw whenever they want to. That is how their mentality works.
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