Sign 3: Destroying Your Avenues of Sustenance.
They destroy all the avenues of your sustenance. Somehow, things always go wrong when they are around. You lose your job, not because they did anything obvious, but because they subtly created tension, and planted doubts in your boss’s mind. I’ve seen it happen. You miss deadlines because they picked a fight the night before, keeping you up until sunrise. You make terrible financial decisions because they nudged you in the wrong direction. And when it all falls apart, they smirk and say, “I told you so.” They make sure you fail over and over again until you start to believe that you are, in fact, a failure.
When failure after failure piles up, you feel worthless, like no matter how hard you try, you will never be good enough. They turn you into a shell of yourself, unable to see any value in your existence. And that is when the thoughts creep in—the ones that whisper, “Maybe it would be easier if I just disappeared. Maybe this world isn’t for me. Maybe the narcissist was right all along.”
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Sign 4: Subtle Hints of Non-Belonging.
They hint that you do not belong here anymore. Now, before I go deeper, I need you to know that this is betrayal—betrayal from the beginning until the very end. The person you trust the most turns out to be your arch-enemy, and that leaves you with a moral wound. They don’t only overtly say you should end it; they say things like, “I don’t know how you deal with everything. I couldn’t do it,” or “If I were in your position, I don’t think I would have the strength to keep going as well.” They say these things casually, like a passing thought, but the message is clear. They plant the idea and then sit back, watching like a predator.
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If you ever admit that you’re feeling hopeless and helpless, they’ll mock you. They’ll give you a smirk, and instead of helping you, they’ll watch you fall apart and love the fact that their process of disintegrating your desire to live is working. They make sure that by the time you feel like giving up, it seems like your own idea. They take away your hope, one remark at a time, until you see no reason to keep going.
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