5. Breaking or destroying their victims
The narcissist targets people for different reasons, but once you are on the hit list, nothing makes them happier than seeing you broken and defeated. And for a lot of them, if they could eradicate you completely without fear of a judicial system or imprisonment, they would. The narcissist does not want any of the adversaries to go unpunished and it needs to be a tangible punishment.
The punishment needs to be something that can be seen and felt, so the narcissist wants it to be where that victim’s reputation is destroyed or their finances depleted. They want them to lose positions, family, friends, material possessions, and they will not rest until this happens.
The narcissist sleeps best at night when they are destroying other people’s lives, only then, the things seem right in their world but only for a moment.
Okay, so those are the five things that I think would make any narcissist happy, but as I said before, the happiness they gain from these things is fleeting because the narcissist gets bored easily and yearns for more.
Now, as promised, I will now reveal the only thing that can make a narcissist truly happy. The only way a narcissist can experience true happiness and satisfaction is if they stop being a narcissist, that is the only way they can be truly happy. But many of them are too proud to admit that they have anything wrong with them, and are fine pretending to be happy when they are not.
So it’s their loss, and although money, power, attention, praise, and seeing their victim suffer can bring happiness to a narcissist, they are just temporary fixes to a much deeper and darker problem that many narcissists refuse to address.
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