Number 5: Aging negative effects.
As I’ve said earlier, appearance is a vital thing for narcissists, but the thing with beauty is that it’s never constant. Nature will eventually be against us when our age goes higher each year. Narcissists can’t accept this fact. Imagine this, narcissists staring at their reflection then gradually losing the beauty he admires. What do you think he would feel?
Now, consider the feeling as the narcissist through action when they realize time is going against them; they would be frantic and worried. The only thing they can be proud of taken away from them is too much. They still eventually lose self-esteem and charm when they look old and rugged, and for people who live on attention and admiration, functioning without being praised for their looks or just by getting noticed can be depressing.
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Seeing a narcissist lose it all can be a total pity, but you should still be careful about how you deal with them. Compassion is a noble thing to give to narcissists, but you have to prioritize your safety first. Narcissists May strike as someone without a care in the world, but they are the ones who care so much just to fit in society, just like Narcissists.
Narcissists are also born with a curse not to feel empathy and that lacking is not their fault. It becomes their responsibility when they know what they’re doing is wrong, but they still keep doing it. Deflating their ego and pride is a way to teach them a lesson, but in the worst cases, it may motivate them to go on with that lifestyle.
Remember, although narcissists are pitiful and need help, if they don’t do anything to make a change, your efforts will be for nothing. Choose your battles wisely.
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