4. Narcissists are like robots.
As a result, Narcissists are like robots who have been preprogrammed to do and say certain things and respond in certain ways. For them, Being good is something you pretend to be for the world stage, but the choices made are always in their best interest and no consideration is given to others.
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Their secret mission is always to steal, kill and destroy, and that is why the choices they make will always reflect that at the end of the day because that is what they have been programmed to do. That is how they think they will win. We can sit on our empathy and judge people and situations fairly, but Narcissists can’t.
5. Narcissists are self-centred.
Narcissists have a one-track mind which leads to them always coming out on top with a trail of broken hearts and bodies behind them. And that is why for those of us who have experienced narcissistic abuse, we hold to the mantra of no contact, zero contact because we know what these people are capable of. You cannot sit around hoping that one day the narcissist will make the right choice concerning you because unless the Narcissist has a heart change, they will not.
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A choice is an act of choosing between two or more possibilities. For Narcissists, certain things are just not possible to them, and therefore, they are not an option. Having choices is kind of like having certain privileges. And where there is a lack of something, there is also a lack of certain privileges.
A Narcissist’s lack of empathy means they have lost the privilege to make certain choices that are beneficial for all concerned. And that is why they will never love you but are guaranteed to hurt you.
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