Number 4: They pretend to be extremely happy with someone else.
This is one of the most painful aspects of dealing with a narcissist who pretends to have moved on. Well, they never move on from anything because they never stay, never connect, or take any part in a relationship they fake to create. They replace faces once you leave them or they discard you. They enter a new relationship quickly and parade their new partner around as a way to provoke feelings of jealousy or regret in you. They make a public show of their happiness, filling their social media feeds with pictures and stories designed to make it seem like they have found the perfect partner.
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The underlying message is clear: they are doing great without you, and it’s your loss. This is also a way for them to stroke their own ego and portray themselves as irresistibly desirable. But you and I both know that they are the most undesirable kind, the most hated one. Their life is nothing but a show that deserves to be pitied because even after leaving you, they are run by their deep-rooted insecurities and shame. It is more important for them to prove you are wrong than reflecting and taking some time to work on themselves and to change their behavior.
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In a nutshell, we can say once they are done with you, they are not actually done with you because their focus still stays on you. They try to either destroy you, destroy your reputation, or cause you some kind of harm in one way or the other. The best way to deal with any of that is to mitigate the risk, cover your corners, make sure you’re safe, and just ignore them because they do not matter.
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