3. He lets them live in a pure state of dissatisfaction and dysphoria.
Because the narcissist thinks nothing is enough, they want more and more and more. Still, nothing is enough for them. It’s like a vessel with a bottomless hole, everything gets leaked out. They’re not thankful, they’re not grateful. It’s not only applicable to the things they have achieved or they have in their life. It’s not just applicable to the money or the people, it is applicable to every single thing, to themselves as well. No matter what they do, they feel something is missing, something is missing. And this in itself is a trauma response. Many people feel that way, but they are able to acknowledge it. They are able to acknowledge that, “I have this tendency to be a perfectionist, and I need to work on it.” But with the narcissist, it is completely different.
For a narcissist, this sense of something missing is always projected on others, onto you. If you are their source of supply, that’s why they need you to dress better, gain weight, lose weight, look a certain way, do more for them, and speak a certain way. And no matter what you do, the target keeps moving. It is actually their own insecurities, their own shame they aren’t able to acknowledge. And all of this projection creates a toxic cycle they get trapped in, because they become blind to their own shortcomings.
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So what does God do? He lets them live in that other state of dissatisfaction. And guess what, if you are dissatisfied with your life, you are never at peace, you do not know what joy is. Yes, they might seem to be happy with all the toys they play with, but their happiness is like a high, it is a momentarily high. And they seek novelty, they never get to experience stability, they never get to experience what it means to be loved, and genuinely cared for. Yes, you did love and care for them, but they never received it. There is nothing in them, no agency that could have received it. And they are so unlucky because love is the biggest thing. Love is the emotion that has the highest frequency, the highest vibration.
If you can’t experience that, no amount of money or anything else will ever be able to make you feel fulfilled. They do not feel fulfillment. In other words, I can say, they never get to experience Divine Mercy. They never get to grow, they are stuck in this stagnant vibrational frequency that always keeps them at the lower level of consciousness. They never expand, they never see the unity in diversity, they do not see the Divine around them. These are higher concepts but very important. They live like a parasite, they are in a rat race, continuously running for the same thing, seeking the same thing. And just worse, their life is worse than of an animal. They’re stuck in the survival state, the predatory state, and they vanish away like that. That is what God does.
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Other times, God brings them disgrace by exposing them. Narcissists like to think they are really intelligent, they can hide and conceal everything. But when God decides to expose them, all the information is brought to the surface, everything makes sense, and the dots are connected. And this narcissist’s falsely constructed web of lies and deceit is burned down, it just turns into ash. And they are completely exposed to the world, with nowhere to go, no more supply to seek. And the only thing they do at that point is they collapse. Because every single way of being a narcissist is destroyed, and they struggle and suffer that way.
So in a nutshell, what I’m trying to say is, it is never happy for them, there is no happy ending to a narcissist. One way or the other, they’re made to face the consequences, and they at that time can’t escape them. They are made to suffer, not because God is cruel and wants to punish them like that. No, their own actions, it is their own karma they are facing at the moment, and that is what they are destined to meet always.
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