1. Narcissists gaslight their s£xµal partners.
Gaslighting is a manipulative tactic narcissists use to make their partners doubt their own thoughts and feelings, even making them question their sanity. Narcissists can use this tactic during s£x to maintain power and control.
They might suggest s£xµal activities or fantasies that make their partners uncomfortable or seem extreme. If their partner expresses concern, the narcissist may respond with comments like, “Maybe you’re just not good in bed; everyone else loves this,” or “You’re overthinking it—this is totally normal.”
A narcissist might pressure their partner into doing something they don’t want to do and then twist the situation, claiming it was the partner’s idea or calling them “perverted.” This behavior is designed to make the partner feel inadequate, inferior, and to damage their self-esteem.
2. They lack Empathy.
Being with a narcissistic partner often means they don’t understand or care about your feelings and needs. Their s£xµal desires and fantasies usually take priority over your efforts and expectations.
If you express your feelings or ask for something different in bed, they might dismiss you with comments like, “I didn’t know you were so uptight.” To them, your satisfaction and needs don’t matter, and they may take you for granted because they lack empathy.
This behavior can make you feel like a pushover. Your requests might be ignored, dismissed, or completely unheard. They may not listen to you at all, leaving you feeling used, invisible, and emotionally abandoned. As a result, physical intim@cy with a narcissistic partner often feels unfulfilling and can negatively affect your emotional well-being.
Recommended Book: Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself- By Shahida Arabi.
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