Number 10: Your date cancels at the last minute.
If it’s the day of your meeting and your date subtly cancels on you or worse you get stood up, it’s a blatant sign that they have no respect for your time. That is what a full-blown narcissist would do. Unless they have a valid emergency, it’s considered a huge red flag to take someone stressed for granted like that.
In those 10 signs mentioned, it may be hard to come to terms and make a solid judgment about a person, but it’s a crucial factor in self-development, especially for people who have been through abuse. It may cause an external effect of attracting the same kind of abusive people and having them gravitate towards you. It’s inevitable since it may have been your reality for so long. In consequence, you want to date yourself so much that you ignore them, but these red flags are here to warn you.
Recommended: Healing from Hidden Abuse: A Journey Through the Stages of Recovery from Psychological Abuse.
Making a verdict based on these will save you so much time, energy, and money; not to mention that it will spare you from all the unhappiness, trauma, and regrets in the future. It’ll be your instinct to speak to you. Your discernment is a gift to yourself, so it’s safe to say to trust your intuition. Even if everything else seems good, pay attention to the feeling if something feels off. Considering the progression of dating commonly taken by people, it is essential to remember to know our worth to recognize who is worthy of us. After all, we only accept the love we think we deserve.
Read More: 13 Signs You’re Having Sex With a Narcissist.
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