Number 9: Never personalize what narcissists do.
You will be perceived by narcissists as either a threat or a victim. They are looking for a way to gain an advantage over others. While narcissists’ greatest mistreatment is usually held for those closest to them, no one is immune to their deception. You give narcissists a place in your head and emotions if you take what they do personally. Anyone who crosses their way will be targeted by a narcissist. It’s not about you, it’s just how they operate.
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Number 10: Never minimize a narcissist’s outrageous behaviour.
The self-absorbed behavior and craving for attention of narcissists can deplete the emotional oxygen supply in a place. People who live with narcissists may become numb to their presence and fail to understand how harmful their behavior can be. Deceiving, manipulating, and demeaning people is unhealthy and unacceptable. It may be preferable to ignore a narcissist’s immature or offensive behavior at times, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t acknowledge how dysfunctional it is, at least to yourself.
Consider yourself in the same way that a narcissist considers himself. You never know how narcissists may try to damage you, so be attentive and cautious while dealing with them. These 10 things will guide you and help you avoid falling into the narcissist’s trap. Simply stay away from them and you will have a peaceful life.
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