Number 3: They want to make you feel guilty for everything.
Narcissists will do everything they can to turn the tables on you and make you feel bad about yourself. They want you to feel like you’re the reason they are so unhappy, which is why narcissists make it seem like they have all these problems in their lives. Narcissists have no issues whatsoever; they just want someone else to blame it on.
Narcissists are masterful manipulators who’ll take every opportunity to make you feel like the worst person in the world. For example, if you disagree with them, they’ll accuse you of being ungrateful or disrespectful. They’ll use guilt to control you and keep you in line.
Number 4: They want to use you for their gain.
Narcissists want you for one reason: to use you for their gain. This is the first thing they want to do, and it’s what they will do up until the end. The end justifies the means for narcissists; they’ll use anyone and anything as long as it gets them what they want. Narcissists are constantly looking for ways to manipulate people; they will only change this pattern if they don’t get what they want from you.
Here’s the thing, narcissists aren’t interested in you; they’re interested in what they can get from you. They are Masters at creating an idealized version of themselves that they want others to see. They’ll tell you that they love you and make you feel like the most critical person in the world, but that’s just a way for them to get what they want. They are still taking advantage of their feelings for them, leaving you high and dry when they’re done with you.
Number 5: They will never give up control over you.
Narcissists will never give up control over you; they want you to be in their debt and they want you to be dependent on them. We all know they want to be in charge of everything, but did you know that they will do anything to maintain this control? It’s the only thing they know how to do, and they’ll never give it up.
Narcissists will do whatever it takes to keep you on their web. They want you to be available for their every whim, and they’ll make sure you know it. They will keep trying to get their way and never let you go. Control is the only way narcissists can feel good about themselves, and it’s the only way to get what they want.
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