6. Super empaths will fail the narcissist’s expectations.
Narcissists hate failures. They also hate it when someone fails them and this is how selfish and ruthless they are. Despite hopeful attempts, super empaths must be reminded that narcissism is a mental disorder and only skilled therapists can treat their condition. In that way, they can give more to themselves than to their codependents.
Super empaths can be brutally honest, and this will severely hurt the narcissist’s ego. When the fight sparks, the powerful part of a super empath emerges. Super empaths will stop showering them with compliments by the time they realize the bitter reality. The narcissist argues irrationally as they start to become envious of how super empaths can easily rise from the toxic situation they’re in. Truth be told, super empaths always deserve a better place in a relationship.
5. Narcissists thought that super empaths could never leave them.
Although narcissists attract super empaths in return, super empaths can sense that their needy personalities might no longer be healthy for both of them. One of the reasons why super empaths stay in this toxic love cycle is because they always convince themselves that the co-dependent person needs them. Their empathic side would tell them to provide emotional support to people who need it. As a response, super empaths tried to ignore the red flags as much as they could.
However, when they finally realize what they should realize, super empaths will apply the silent treatment. They will no longer care what narcissists have to say. Super empaths value themselves too, and they can sense when someone is slowly depleting their energy. They will never permit anyone to give them a reason to hate themselves. When realizations finally come in, without a doubt, super empaths leave the relationship.
Lundy Bancroft: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men.
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