10 Desperate Things Narcissists Do When You Are Not Around


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 6. They May flirt with other women/men.

 If you’ve ever been in a relationship with a narcissist, you’ve probably noticed that they are never satisfied. They always want more: more attention, more praise, More Love, and when they don’t get what they want, they start to look for it elsewhere. It’s no secret that narcissists are often Unfaithful, they need to feel important and special, so they seek out new people to flatter and impress, rather than staying in a relationship with one person.

 Narcissists will use their partner’s emotional investment in them to get what they want, so they’ll find someone else who will give them what they want if you are not there. They will flirt with other people when you’re not around, even if they say they love you. Narcissists are insecure and need to be reassured of their worth by others.

 7. They will complain about everything.

 Narcissists love to complain; they complain about everything, including what you do for them, how you treat them, and everything else. They will complain about everything: they complain about the weather, the food, friends, and even themselves. They’ll always have a reason why something isn’t good enough or why it’s not working out exactly as they planned.

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 Narcissists are good at pretending everything is going well in their lives, even when it’s not. They act happy, excited, and interested in what you have to say or do when you’re around them. You might even think they care about what you have to say or do. But don’t be fooled! It’s all just a ruse for getting what they want out of you, and then complaining about how much better off everyone else is than them once you’ve left the room.

 8. They may start to lie.

 Narcissists are known for telling lies but might start to do more when you’re not around. This is because they will have less frequent opportunities for you to catch them in their lies. They might start lying about their whereabouts and the things they’ve done. Narcissists can get away with a lot more when you’re not around to challenge them on their behaviors. When talking to people, they may make up stories or exaggerate their accomplishments.

 Narcissists are very good at telling these kinds of lies because they believe so strongly in their self-worth and importance that they can also convince others. They tell these lies because they need to feel Superior and important. If they feel like they are important people, then it makes them feel good about themselves.

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