Number 4: Silence will make you fight with your inner self to choose peace, not revenge.
The best revenge is not taking any revenge at all. Taking revenge will only display you being a narcissist as they are. Let narcissists be who they are, fight with your inner self no matter how bad you would like to try to take revenge. Stop, since your revenge will only harm you; not them. The narcissists have no empathy and don’t care. Revenge will turn you into a horrible person who isn’t you in the first place. The best revenge is no reaction; believe it!
The silence and zero response bother the narcissist and they consider it the best-served payback, nothing creates more curiosity than silence. The narcissist would expect you to vent or go on an angry rant, but just don’t give in, the lack of control in the absence of a conflict drives a narcissist insane. The less you fight back, the less power they have over you, and they never apologize because they never believe they are wrong.
Number 5: Silence will take your whole life back from their world.
Show them that you reclaimed your life and you achieved success. You are an independent person standing on your own two feet; your entire self-worth is not dependent on them. Life is too beautiful and short to feed yourself with hatred or vengeance for someone. Go outside and spend time with your friends, enjoy your life; that’s the best revenge you can give them. Basically, not caring, showing them that you can continue on without them.
Here’s a question: What do narcissists do with your silence?
Avoiding contact or choosing silence is usually the most efficient strategy to avoid a narcissist’s grasp. It’s not as simple as simply blocking their phone number or social media profiles. A narcissist will do all in his power to get you back, or at the very least, punish you, because silence is a major ego blow to him- a narcissist will never stop fighting.
So here are six things narcissists do that you should also avoid.
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