1. Their Inability to Forgive or Forget.
Well, to get straight to the point, it’s wrapped up in their inability to forgive or forget. They are very vengeful, but they also already have the desire to see people suffer, to bring hurt and confusion. So they are always looking for a reason to execute vengeance. Covert narcissists are easily offended. It doesn’t take much for them to feel disrespected or take offense. But what I want to do is give you some examples of the type of things that they take offense to because they catch every micro-expression or would even imagine that there was one that they didn’t take favorably to.
But also the slightest change in your tone of voice, the slightest change in attention or affection that you give to them. If you happen to miss their call for whatever reason, if you delayed in responding to a message they sent you, or if you dare to disagree with anything they say or point out a flaw in the argument, if you criticize them in any way, and I am sure you all can provide me with a few more examples, so please do in the comment section below.
A Book: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men.
The problem is that they don’t take offense then get over it eventually and push it aside. Oh no, instead they start looking for a way to get back at you, even in instances where you may have apologized. They would accept your apology and pretend like it was no issue at all. But don’t be deceived, all covert narcissists do not forgive, neither do they forget. What they do is pretend that they do so that you can let down your guard. It’s because of the part of egos that nothing flies by for the covert narcissists. This unwillingness to forget, even on the smallest of matters, coupled with their desire to see you suffer, is what makes covert narcissists so dangerous.
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