Number 3: Trying to reason.
Thirdly, they might actually try to reason with you. Now they may even use some of the same phrases that you used endlessly to try to reason with them but got nowhere. They may say things like, ‘Can we agree to differ?’ Or, ‘Can we try to meet each other halfway?’ Or, ‘Could you try seeing this from my perspective?’ They may even acknowledge there is clearly something going on with you and maybe suggest you go and see a therapist to figure out what is wrong with you.
Recommended: Healing from Hidden Abuse: A Journey Through the Stages of Recovery from Psychological Abuse.
Number 4: Stalking.
They might pursue you relentlessly in order to try to grind you down. Now this could include stalking. They could stalk you in real life, follow you around, or they could stalk you on social media, but not necessarily make a secret of it. They may comment on every picture and every post you put online. They may put up posts themselves knowing they’re going to get a particular reaction from you whether you comment or mention it or not. They may think they are acting like in some kind of bizarre romantic comedy and they’re going to win you back, or they may be just desperate to try and get their supply back. Or there could be something more sinister going on. They may think it’s part of their revenge. Whatever the reason is, it’s to let you know they’re still around.
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