1. Any and all evidence even full proof evidence will be attacked, specifically if you are the one producing the evidence. Remember, narcissists take any and all situations that happen, and they run a narrative that makes them into the hero, the victim, or the martyr, or some combination of all three.
So when they are faced with absolute proof that they are indeed not any of those things, that they are the responsible party for this failure, whoever supplied the evidence but embraced themselves for one of the nastiest smear campaigns you have ever seen, the narcissist will attack this person’s character, calling them a liar, or jealous, or crazy. They may suggest that this person obtained the information illegally or that they fabricated the information completely. Whoever produced this information, the narcissist is going to try, smear, bully, or blackmail them into submission, or at the very least, wreck this person’s character and intentions so terribly that no one believes the evidence that they are looking at with their own eyes.
2. If they cannot successfully blame the person who supplied the evidence, they will look for a scapegoat elsewhere. Many times, they will pick a scapegoat who is vulnerable and cannot defend themselves. For example, let’s say they lose a custody battle and they have run out of things to smear the ex-spouse’s reputation with, especially because the ex-spouse or someone other than themselves was awarded custody of the child.
So the narcissist will likely start a smear campaign against the child and will start blaming the child for his or her failure at winning this custody battle because God knows, it couldn’t be the fault of the narcissistic parent and their abusive and neglectful behaviors towards the child that caused them to lose custody. They will have dragged the ex-spouse’s name through the mud, and if that didn’t work, then it will become the most defenseless and innocent person’s responsibility the child him or herself.
Do not ever think that a narcissist will spare their own children the wrath of their lives because nothing is more important to a narcissist than winning, not even their own kids.
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